Trust the process

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Trust is most powerful thing. Trust that the future can still be beautiful even if it looks different than what you were expecting.
If you have to say goodbye to something or someone, I hope you can trust that in time, you will be fine. Not well, but fine, and by the time, life will be different but still beautiful. You will still be whole. Trust in the process of change. You are allowed to greive what was, while also having hope that just because the beautiful part of past can't be replaced or repeated, that doesn't mean you can't have a beautiful future ahead, that will be meaningful and special in its own way. You might not bond with the new person in the same way you had with someone else. You might not feel the same familiarity in the new city that you feel in your hometown or the last city you left behind, but you can still have a meaningful and adventurous life right here. Trust the process, you can still find connection here in the present moment. Yes, the present moment will look different from the past, but perhaps that can be a beautiful thing. 

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