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Junior Engineer in Rajasthan government at age of 21

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Junior Engineer in Rajasthan government at age of 21 In yellow saree, she is my cousin. And she is just only 21 and cleared the govt exam, and selected as junior engineer post in Rajasthan government. She makes everyone of us so proud. She and her parent’s hardwork pays off. She is only child of her parents. His father means my maternal uncle was very dedicated towards her study and everything from day 1. She always supports her parents and respect their hardwork. She never had a television at her home and not even she demanded at all. She is very much adjustable in every kind of situations. She always bought the things that really needed and matters for her. I mean in the very young age how one could be so mature enough. She did it and proves that if you have ambition and passion for something from day one to achieve something than definitely you will get either sooner or later. Now my Mama will surely buy her a tv.πŸ˜…πŸ₯²Choti si gudiya kab badi or itni samajdaar ho gai pata hi nahi cha...

Trust the process

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Trust is most powerful thing. Trust that the future can still be beautiful even if it looks different than what you were expecting. If you have to say goodbye to something or someone, I hope you can trust that in time, you will be fine. Not well, but fine, and by the time, life will be different but still beautiful. You will still be whole. Trust in the process of change. You are allowed to greive what was, while also having hope that just because the beautiful part of past can't be replaced or repeated, that doesn't mean you can't have a beautiful future ahead, that will be meaningful and special in its own way. You might not bond with the new person in the same way you had with someone else. You might not feel the same familiarity in the new city that you feel in your hometown or the last city you left behind, but you can still have a meaningful and adventurous life right here. Trust the process, you can still find connection here in the present moment. Yes, the present m...

For every problem, there is a Solution

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When obstacles arise, don't be surprised, don't get stressed out or allow yourself to get lost in worry or anxiety, instead keep yourself calm, take a deep breath and summon wisdom into your situation- with the confidence that you can and will find and create a solution for sure. Remember: for every problem, there is a solution. But it's going to require hope, creativity and faith to find it.  The hope that there's a way out.  The creativity to find a way around the problem.  The faith that you are strong enough to conquer the problems that you face. You are strong enough dear readers to overcome every obstacle you face. There is magic in your bones. Keep Hustling ✍️ ☺️ Pic source: Pinterest 

Life's Advice πŸ’•

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Always be the best person you can be. Be kind even when you are tired. Be understanding even when you are angry. Do more than you are asked, and don't ask for anything in return. Don't silently expect anything either. Listen when someone talks,  and really listen too, stop just thinking of how will you reply. Tell people that you love them, and that you appreciate them. Go out of your way to do things for people. Be the greatest person you can possibly be and when you mess up, make up for it in the next moment or minute or day. One thing you should never do? Never spend your time trying to prove anybody that you are great, your action will speak for themselves and we only have limited time on this earth, don't waste it. If someone doesn't see your light, don't worry. Good people are attracted to flame and to light, and they will come. Xoxo 

Beauty of Attachment & Detachment

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Couple of days ago, I read an interview of Sudha Murthy ji  Though the article was way too old i.e 2001, but it amazed me to see how progressive her thought process was irrespective of how world portrayed the relationship between DIL and MIL. When she was asked about how she was as mother-in-law, her response was, “You have to ask my son-in-law and daughter-inlaw about that! My latest book "The Day I Stopped Drinking Milk" has been dedicated to Rishi and Lakshmi, my son-in-law and daughter-in-law, respectively. I tell them that they do not have to make any adjustments for us. It is we, the older generation, who should be making the adjustments. Let’s never forget that we’ve had our innings and it’s now time for them to start and open theirs. We should make way for the youngsters instead of expecting them to come around to our ways.”  Pic Source: Google Not only this, she also talked about the law of detachment. “I remain detached in the sense that I do not expect ...

Being a mother..

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To be honest, Yes. I am a mother of a 2 years old. My world literally changed in a nightmare after he was born. That first month of him birth was terrible for me. As it was winters. This little man used to cry for the whole nights. Fortunately, I had normal delivery, so it was not much physically challenging for me to caress him. Still, I was staying frustrated and kind of experiencing stiches blues. However, things started improving day by day as he grew up. He started smiling at me and my whole world changed once again, this time in a beautiful way. I am so grateful to be a mother now. I just love this feeling and was waiting for those moments when he will call me “mummy” and will reciprocate his love towards me. I am writing this lying next to him. I tell you being a parent is a blessing. No material things of this or any other world can give you such joy. Cheers to Parenthood ✌🏼