why we Indian are biased for boy and girl child 🚸

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We Indians need women as a wife, as a mother, as a sister but not as a daughter!

According to the Indian society, a girl is a burden, because:

  1. Parents take care of their daughter, nurture her, pay school & college fees to make her graduate. They spend on her education to simply get her marry to someone.
  2. They get worried if their daughter is not home by 7 or 8 by night.
  3. Later, their parents again pay hefty dowry to get her married to a decent guy.
  4. Even after her marriage, if something goes wrong and she gets divorced in between, her parents are still responsible.
  5. If something goes wrong with their Son in law, girls' parents should be stable to help them again.
  6. Parent's responsibility is never-ending if they have a daughter. Indian parents should always live a fearful life if they have a daughter.

Ask any father of a girl child, how much he struggles to search for a right husband to his daughter.

Proverb says,

“A good son in law is like a acquisition of a new son, a bad one is like a loss of your daughter.”

Despite doing all these, their daughter is not responsible to take care of her parents in their last days.

Every parent has a little bit of selfishness, and their kids should look after them in their last days.

Indians, think that having a boy is an asset and a girl is a liability.

  1. Every penny spent on his education is an asset because he will be going to look after them in their last days.
  2. No need to give dowry or spend money on marriage.
  3. No need to worry even if he checks in the home by 1 AM
  4. His in-laws will be there to support him financially.

But only a few people knows that,

The daughter is not equal to Tension, but the daughter is equal to Ten-son's.

Keep Hustling Readers 😉

Teevrata  ✍️


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