Is life easy or we make it hard?

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It depends on how you take it!

  • We can get married with a budget of 10,000 rupees in the Sub Registrar office.
  • We can get married with a budget of 25,000 rupees at the home itself.
  • We can get married with a budget of 50,000 rupees at the temple.
  • We can get married with a budget of 10,00,000 rupees in renowned place with decorations and arrangements.
  • We can get married with a budget of 25,00,000 rupees on the cruise.
  • We can get married with a budget of 50,00,000 rupees at the destination wedding in some other Western country.

Life is simple when you choose the budget of marriage according to your lifestyle.

If you are from a middle-class family and decided to spend 10,00,000 on 2 days marriage function it's a foolish decision!

You will be paying or your father will be re-paying the huge debt and definitely, it's a burden. Then life looks hard.

If you decided to get married within the budget of 50,000 then life looks easy.

Spend little on marriage and more on securing lifestyle post marriage.

It not only applies to marriage it applies to everything. From kids schools to purchasing a home.

Being simple and securing your future makes your life easier.

In today's generation, people are spending a lot of money on marriage.

  • Wedding Venue
  • Catering service
  • Photography & Videography
  • Wedding Outfits & jewellery
  • Decoration
  • Make-up/Henna artists, DJ, return Gifts
  • Miscellaneous /Others
  • Honeymoon

Just imagine, he will be looking at her and she will be looking at the him in the room, no matter whether you arrange your honeymoon in Switzerland or Dehradun 😉

Opt for simple marriage, and don't waste on marriage. Marriage is not an investment!

So spend less than what you earn and save little. Live happily that's the secret of an easy lifestyle.

We are spending most of our money to impress our neighbours, not to satisfy your souls.

People think it a matter of prestigious to send their kids to high-class English school, buy apartments in rich colonies, buy the latest edition of the iPhone, spend huge amounts on automobiles, branded outfits, marriage etc.,

The day when you start living for yourself, then life becomes easier. As long as you live to impress someone then your life will be hard as a rock. So think on it🤔

Teevrata ✍️

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