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Year end 2022📰

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2022 was a roller coaster ride in my life. There were lots of ups and downs this year. So, life taught me more than the syllabus. Life adjusts automatically to the situation. Everyone has their own timeline in their life to achieve. “There is no comparison between the Sun and the moon, it raises up when it's their time. “Good thing will happen to good people, the bad thing will happen to bad people” is a myth. “A person should not be too honest. Straight trees are cut first and honest people are screwed first.” Everything can't be executed as I planned, because life has there to say “checkmate” to my plans. Life is unpredictable. The people who show care, concern and love have hidden intentions. Nobody can love unconditionally including parents. I should go to any extent and take any decisions just to keep myself happy. It's not a crime. At the end of the day only “I” matters. Health is important. The job you are killing yourself for 12 - 14 hours a day, will re...

some harsh facts of life

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Nobody is thinking about you, people are busy thinking about themselves. The life you are living right now is a dream for many people. No one is going to love you exactly like you imaging. Someday, you will miss today. You are not important! Life will never be perfect. Life is not always fair. It takes nothing to join the crowd, but it takes everything to stand alone. Your achievements and success won't matter on your deathbed. Your hairstyle, clothes, iPhone doesn’t matter unless you make others happy. Those who suicide are the one who has strongest Will. Unfortunately they use that Will against themselves. If no girl/boy proposes you then accept the fact that, you look ugly or having lack of confidence. Your lover can cheat you anytime for money, looks, sex, status, etc. Half of the people are happy for others' loss rather than one's gain. Nobody cares how difficult your life is. Just like the weather, people also change. Failures are a crucial part of life. Everyone you ...

happiness by Money..can we buy??

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Yes, money brings comfort, and comfort, in turn, brings happiness. I seem to be rude and sound to be bitter. That's the reality which you people difficult to accept. You should earn enough money first, only then you have the liberty to say “Money can't buy happiness!” Money may not always bring happiness, but poverty always brings misery. Money definitely can buy happiness. If someone is hungry, shivering outside cold and rain, the money will buy him some food and shelter, so he would be instantly happy. In fact, until you reach a level where you start meeting your basic necessities and more in order to enjoy life experiences, money definitely brings happiness. Money is the key to improving the quality of life. But money itself can’t be the end goal or ultimate source of happiness. At best, money can be stated as your partner to create life experiences. It can help you to enjoy the best experiences of life. Such experiences that fulfill all your sensory needs like: ...

life's achievement

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Achievement shouldn't always be gigantic. According to me achievement is all about.. Healthy and Calm life style. Being a responsible father/ mother is an achievement. Being a responsible husband/ wife is an achievement. If you take care of your parents without sending them to old age home is an achievement. Training your mind to be calm in every situation is an achievement. Appreciating and encouraging wholeheartedly without any jealousy is an achievement. Accepting the way you are Is an achievement. Helping someone if it is in your tolerance it's an achievement. The art of saying “no” is an achievement. Leading a life without comparing to someone else life is an achievement. If you get a sound sleep right after you go to bed is an achievement. Being loyal is an achievement. Being optimistic in life is an achievement. Loving someone truly is an achievement. If you stand on your feet, without depending on ancestral property is an achievement. If you have a caring an...

money 🤑 money 🤑

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Money! Money is the deadliest weapon in the world. It can get you whatever you want and it can take you where ever you want. If you have money, people will be around you. If you don't have money, people not even care you. People have become so selfish and materialistic nowadays. Relatives respect you only if you have money. Neighbours smile at you if you have money. If you have money, then only your crush will fall for you. Money is everything, that's the beauty of it. To live, you need the money and if you want to die then also need money to do final rituals. Money can get you freedom in life and it can buy anything in this world, from love to lust. Don't live the life of poor, live rich and die rich. Make money as your priority in life. If you are in trouble, no one will come to your rescue, not even your spouse. Money can rescue from any bad phase! I'm not kidding, its a fact! You can't even imagine a day without money. Money is like an important orga...

why we Indian are biased for boy and girl child 🚸

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We Indians need women as a wife, as a mother, as a sister but not as a daughter! According to the Indian society, a girl is a burden, because: Parents take care of their daughter, nurture her, pay school & college fees to make her graduate. They spend on her education to simply get her marry to someone. They get worried if their daughter is not home by 7 or 8 by night. Later, their parents again pay hefty dowry to get her married to a decent guy. Even after her marriage, if something goes wrong and she gets divorced in between, her parents are still responsible. If something goes wrong with their Son in law, girls' parents should be stable to help them again. Parent's responsibility is never-ending if they have a daughter. Indian parents should always live a fearful life if they have a daughter. Ask any father of a girl child, how much he struggles to search for a right husband to his daughter. Proverb says, “A good son in law is like a acquisition of a new son,...

End something which is "suffocating"

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When the relationship is fading, losing its charm you are left with no other option better than calling it off! People with two different perspective of life can't live together, so discuss your likes and dislikes before marriage else you will be suffering until you take divorce. End the meaningless, baseless, trustless relationship. The best is waiting for you somewhere around the corner. Never suffer sticking to a toxic relationship! In those 4 years, I never felt like I was in a relationship. I never felt attached. There was no essence left in that relationships. I informed about our love relationship to our parents. No family members supported me, I went against all of them because of him! The whole family stood against me for intercaste marriage, but I was beside him. I suffered a lot because of all the taunts from the relatives for intercaste. When I asked for study and job after marriage he just responded, “How can I trust you?” That triggered me the most, I have...

Is life easy or we make it hard?

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It depends on how you take it! We can get married with a budget of 10,000 rupees in the Sub Registrar office. We can get married with a budget of 25,000 rupees at the home itself. We can get married with a budget of 50,000 rupees at the temple. We can get married with a budget of 10,00,000 rupees in renowned place with decorations and arrangements. We can get married with a budget of 25,00,000 rupees on the cruise. We can get married with a budget of 50,00,000 rupees at the destination wedding in some other Western country. Life is simple when you choose the budget of marriage according to your lifestyle. If you are from a middle-class family and decided to spend 10,00,000 on 2 days marriage function it's a foolish decision! You will be paying or your father will be re-paying the huge debt and definitely, it's a burden. Then life looks hard. If you decided to get married within the budget of 50,000 then life looks easy. Spend little on marriage and more on securing lifestyle po...

How to get over an ex ?

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It takes 21 days to create a habit and It takes 90 days to create a lifestyle. Every year teaches us two things: No one is permanent Life has to move on Just imagine, you are a driver of your life, in fact, you are! There are many seats occupied by your parents, siblings, cousins, friends, colleagues and mentors. Just because your boyfriend/ girlfriend has not boarded the bus that doesn't mean you should wait at the bus stand itself just for that one missing passenger in your bus! The bus has to reach the destination, so does your life. Definitely, you will get a new passenger on the way, get along with him/ her. “If you are brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new Hello.” ~Paulo Coehlo My new Hello 🤗😁 Don’t be scared or hesitant to change the prince’s/ princess's name in your story. 😉 Psychologically, if you divert your mind you can forget your past and pain. The route to get yourself busy is left to you. ♫ Saath chhodunga na tere piche aaung...

The way one should cope up with hatred

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Swami Vivekanda to APJ SRK to Yash Sachin Tendulkar to MSD Gandhi ji to Godse Sir Krishna to Lord Jesus Everybody had haters, haters didn't leave the Big names in history, will they leave Teevrata? No, so the best response to haters is just ignorance. Teevrata is bad and she writes openly about her experiences, she doesn't bother about the people's opinions. She is ruthless! Wait! Teevrata did something and forgot, but you people still carrying in your mind thinking about her, judging her. The Zen story might help you and this story is a mirror of your personality. One day while Zen monk Tanzan and a young monk were travelling, they came to a river with a strong current. As they were preparing to cross the river, they saw a young lady in distress also attempting to cross. Tanzan offered, “Here, let me carry you across,” and placed her down gently on the other side. The lady said, “Thank you very much. Goodbye.” The two continued on their journey for more than half a day. Fi...

How much I love my mother

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I feel short of my words to describe my mother. I never hugged her I never said “I love you” to her I never wished her on her birthday I never wished her on Women's day I never wished her on Mother’s day I never gifted her a saree on my first salary I never took her to the costliest restaurant I never surprised her She works day and night, cooks for us. She never asks for anything or anything. She never took a leave from her household work. She sacrificed her happiness for her husband and kids. I love her a lot, but I don't speak to her openly 🙊 Image source - pinterest 

Shopping hacks you should follow

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I do two mandatory things while I go for shopping of grocery in the supermarket. I leave off my smartphone at home. I carry only cash and no credit/ Debit cards. The reason behind that is simple if you have a credit/ Debit / Google pay you not only purchase ‘’what you need” but you will purchase “what you want” as well. But when you carry limited to cash, you purchase only “what you need!” “You buy things you do not need, soon you will have to sell things you need.”

let dreams be your wings

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Imagine, you will make love with your partner and gave birth to a sweet little baby. Later, you will realise that you can't take care of that baby, because it's difficult to handle and take responsibility of the kid financially. So, you decide to kill that baby, whom you gave birth to. Isn't that sinful? Even in IPC sections, the parents who gave birth to a child don't have the right to kill the baby. Similarly, you gave birth to your dream and you nurtured it, and now you want to kill your dream because you can't able to pursue it. Isn't it sinful too? Don't dare to kill your dreams. Keep Hustling!!

Interesting facts about India

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74% of women in India Preferred arranged marriage. 'Blood' rain fell in Kerala, India. Police officers are given higher pay for having a mustache. During World War II, the Taj Mahal was disguised as a bamboo stockpile. Sanskrit is the mother of all the European languages. Sanskrit is the most suitable language for computer software, reported in Forbes magazine, July 1987. According to the Gemological Institute of America, up until 1896, India was the only source for diamonds to the world. The Number of People Travelling in the Indian Railways Every Day is Equal to the Population of Australia. Frogs Are Married Off. India is the Second Largest English-speaking Nation. The Origin of Ayurveda and Yoga. The Kumbh Mela is visible from space. Rajasthan has a Temple of Rats. The popular game “Snakes and Ladders” originated in India. Ranked the second-most populous country in the world. Indian Women Wear Sarees. A very big thanks to all those people who like and comment.🙇‍...

Reflections..

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A couple were married for 55 years. One morning, wife was going downstairs to make husband's breakfast, she had a heart attack and fell. Her husband picked her up as best he could and almost dragged her into the truck. At full speed, without respecting traffic lights, he drove her to the hospital. When he arrived, unfortunately, she was no longer with them. During the funeral, her husband did not speak, his gaze was lost. He hardly cried. That night, his children joined him. In an atmosphere of pain and nostalgia, they remembered beautiful anecdotes and one of the their children asked his brother, a theologian, to tell him where Mom would be at that moment. One of brother began to talk about life after death, and guesses as to how and where she would be. Their father listened carefully. Suddenly he asked them to take him to the cemetery. Dad!" They replied, "it's 11 at night, we can't go to the cemetery right now!" He raised his voice, and with a glazed look ...

"Happiness is a JOURNEY not a Destination"

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Happiness is a JOURNEY not a Destination . A must read short story. There was a King , and the King was walking with his minister in the farm, where he saw a farmer along with his family - husband, wife and son. They were buzzing, so much life in them, their face were radiant, they were happy, they were beaming with joy, they were singing. They had so much affection and love for each other. And the King said, “Man, I have a massive palace and I have everything that one could dream for and these guys are more happier than me”. Why? Minister said, “Sir, because this family is not a member of the 99 club.” So the King said, “What is this 99 club?” The minister said, “Give me 99 gold coins, I will tell you.” So the King gave him a bag of 99 gold coins and the Minister said, “After 6 months I will tell you, not today.” So the minister took that bag of 99 gold coins and put it right at the door step of the farmer. In the morning when the farmer got up, he saw a bag right a...