Teevs's Teevrata

I stopped sharing my plans — People always want to stay ahead of you, although they won’t tell you. People are jealous by nature. For some reason, people will always find a way to sabotage your plans lest you move faster than them. I stopped sharing my weaknesses — People will use anything to make you stumble so they can laugh at you when you fall, and then mourn you when they see you dying. People will use your weaknesses against you when given the chance. I stopped revealing my next big move — People are always tracking your next move so they can reach there before you. Always move in silence and shock people with your results. I stopped revealing my secrets — Even to my best friends. 9 out of your 10 friends that you have are fake. People will use your secrets to tarnish your image. I stopped sharing my failures with people — People will always bring up your past failures to sabotage your positivity and mindset. I stopped sharing my family secrets — When it comes to family, this is ...

The one who talk bad about others in front of you, then do not expect he will leave you. For sure, guaranteed. We do live in a hypocrite world. Our own close relatives bhua, tai, mama, mami, masi, cousins etc  when never leaves you then what to expect from others.  What we can do? Make distance, talk if necessary. Leave them alone. They do not deserve us. 😉

Sometimes for this reason I feel depressed about it. I want a nurturing and mentor-like figure to look up to. I am an only girl child and a brother. As the youngest among my siblings, I yearned for a big sister, one who could protect me, someone I could look up to and count on to teach me and guide me. What I've learned from that yearning was that it turns out that I have the exact qualities that I was desiring of an elder or younger sibling as a sister. I became that younger "sister" figure I so yearned. I feel so empty for this relation in my life. Although I have cousin sisters but they won't bother as a real sister is. Unfortunately I don't have. I missed the one who can tag me in her happiness or sadness. With whom I can share my feelings and thoughts whole heartedly. 

Replica : Anand Kumar Chouskey- a resident of Burhan Pur in Madhya Pradesh, India constructed a replica of Taj Mahal for his wife. It cost him around 20 million Indian rupees ($260,000). He stays in this 4 bedroom house along with his wife and children. Road : Dashrath Manjhi built a road by cutting mountain in Gaya in Bihar for his wife . It took him 22 years to build 110m long; 7.7 m deep and 9.1 m wide road . Statue : Tapas Sandilya , a retired West Bengal government employee , commissioned a life size silicon statue of his late wife. He lost her during Covid pandemic and thus used his savings of Rs 2.5 lakhs to eternalize her memory. Perhaps : “.Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage. “: Laozi (philosopher) Pic Credits : Google/Web

I think to forget the loved ones it’s the opposite for me personally. I will usually write about my feelings about sad event and how it happened. But I feel like it is more difficult to carry on writing from what you were. Especially after my dog oscar died. Although I can not tell you exactly how long it will take, until you have accepted ‘sad event’ from happening and you can talk about it without crying or feeling extremely bad you will begin to feel better. This can be from a few weeks to a few months. To recover faster, you should speak about your feelings, and if you have no one to talk to in person, reach out to the internet. Also, say there was a death of a pet. You can hold a small funeral service or plant/ make a small statue as a memorial for them. Also look at lots of pictures of the both of you together as it can help to remember the past memories. My cute little sweetheart ❤️ RIP

Of all the skills I’ve learned in the past 7 years of changing my life, one skill stands out: Learning to be comfortable with discomfort. If you learn this skill, you can master pretty much anything. You can beat procrastination, start exercising, make your diet healthier, learn a new language, make it through challenges and physically grueling events, explore new things, speak on a stage, let go of all that you know, and become a minimalist. And that’s just the start. Unfortunately, most people avoid discomfort. I mean, they really avoid it — at the first sign of discomfort, they’ll run as fast as possible in the other direction. This is perhaps the biggest limiting factor for most people, and it’s why you can’t change your habits. Think about this: many people don’t eat vegetables because they don’t like the taste. We’re not talking about soul-wrenching pain here, not Guantanamo torture, but a taste that’s just not something you’re used to. And so they eat what they already like, whi...