Self respect ❤️

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Loving yourself starts with liking yourself, which starts with respecting yourself, which starts thinking of yourself first in positive ways.
Useless.. Hopeless.. Broken..
This was how I saw myself.
I didn't completely hate myself, but I didn't like myself either.. At best I Can say I tolerated myself..
If you are having a hard time liking yourself, let alone loving yourself.. Start by recognizing you have always done the best you could. Even when you have made choices you later regretted, you were trying to help yourself, you just didn't have the awareness or resources to do better.
Then focus on taking small steps to create change. You can be proud of. Don't try to take major changes overnight.. Just do one thing every day to give yourself a little credit. You will likely to feel better about yourself and life. And when we feel better we do better which means you will keep giving yourself reasons to be proud.

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