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Happiness.. :)

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"I am happy when I eat fresh fruits, when I burst out laughing, when I discover a new song, When I finish my routine task, when I wake up and feel relaxed. I'm glad to have friends, family, a home, food, shelter, hot water for shower. I love being able to live and see the seasons changed, to have a good culture and education, and good environment. I am flattered when people compliment me, when people smile at me, when people polite at me. There are so many things that makes life so simple and easy and I will always think about them more than bad things that will happen to me. I do not have time to be sad and ungrateful, I have every reasons in the world to be happy.. So be cheerful always and spread happiness... :)

Love yourself

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“Never lose yourself in a relationship. Love your partner fiercely, but always follow your unique dreams and desires. Be true to yourself.” ~Unknown All my previous relationships drained me. Not only because I was with the wrong men and kept trying to make things work where there was no way, but also because I was a queen of justifying, accommodating, and compromising. I accommodated men because I wanted to be liked and avoid rejection.I justified their lousy behavior because I wanted to be in a relationship and not be alone. I compromised on my values and romantic ideals just to have someone in my life. On the surface, I was an independent woman, strong, fierce, and full of energy and opinions.When it came to relationships, I'd lose my power and myself completely in them. I would become a meek mouse with no voice or opinions. I would put my husband’s needs first and ignore mine. I would keep quiet about how I felt. I wouldn't question things. It took me a fe...

be happy

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“Never lose yourself in a relationship. Love your partner fiercely, but always follow your unique dreams and desires. Be true to yourself.” ~Unknown All my previous relationships drained me. Not only because I was with the wrong men and kept trying to make things work where there was no way, but also because I was a queen of justifying, accommodating, and compromising. I accommodated men because I wanted to be liked and avoid rejection. I justified their lousy behavior because I wanted to be in a relationship and not be alone. I compromised on my values and romantic ideals just to have someone in my life. On the surface, I was an independent woman, strong, fierce, and full of energy and opinions. When it came to relationships, I'd lose my power and myself completely in them. I would become a meek mouse with no voice or opinions. I would put my husband’s needs first and ignore mine. I would keep quiet about how I felt. I wouldn't question things. I...